If you have been trying in vain to get pregnant, you will be happy to know that there are a few things you can do to help assure success. One of the most important things to keep in mind is that there are a number of things that are out of your control, so you should just let those aspects go and focus on the things you can control. Here are some ideas to help you get control of the aspects of conception that you can influence.
Listening to your body is almost as important as listening to your doctor. Pushing yourself too hard during pregnancy is asking too much of your body and not being fair to your baby. The boss, husband, in-laws or whoever else may be demanding of your resources need to take a back seat so that you can take care of yourself and your baby.
It can be very fun setting up a nursery for your child and choosing the right furniture and room decorations. Make sure that you do not come in contact with any paint while you are helping with the decorating because that could be dangerous. Also, make sure not to help with wallpaper because the glue that is used is harmful.
If you get a headache when you are pregnant, make sure to stay away from aspirin. Aspirin has been proven to cause harm in both an expectant mother and baby. It is best to ask your doctor what medications are safe for you to use. Also, try relieving head pressure by using a cool compress.
If you want to know the sex of your baby, you have to wait until you are about 20 weeks pregnant. This is around the time that the ultrasound technician can get a clear picture as to what gender your baby is. But be aware, ultrasounds are not 100 percent accurate!
Don’t neglect your spouse when you are expecting. Make sure to include them, and pamper them too. They are probably as unsettled about some of the changes pregnancy brings about as you are, and can need some assurance as well. You should try to spend time together as a couple by going out on a date. Cherish the dwindling time you have alone together before the new addition arrives.
When pregnant, avoid reclining after a meal. This can help your prevent heartburn. If you experience heartburn, you should sleep with your head elevated by pillows. Try to avoid foods that are spicy, acidic, or fried. These can be the main causes for heartburn during pregnancy. Those types of foods can also worsen your heartburn.
When you are pregnant, it is best to avoid or limit your caffeine intake. You can still have one cup of coffee in the morning, but no more than that. Try drinking decaff or half-caff if you can. Any caffeine that you drink will go straight to your baby and may have negative effects.
Allow yourself to indulge in some of your cravings. You want to try and maintain a healthy diet during pregnancy, but it is okay to eat some unhealthy foods in moderation. Make sure to stay away from brie and feta cheese, herbal teas and raw sprouts, which could all negatively affect your baby’s health.
So, in the final analysis, even though we cannot control every detail that influences conception, it’s good to know that there are ways of keeping track of, planning, and preparing for pregnancy. When you fully understand the process, it will be easier for you to relax and allow your body to get on with the natural work of conception.